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It’s All About Love; To Love is to Give

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There is one small word in our vocabulary that holds the most valuable place in our lives; you guessed it right! Love does not belong only to the feelings of a man and woman; it belongs to every single human being; it belongs to GOD! This is one of the most persuasive reasons why Love Smitten Believes that life is all about LOVE.

Every single morning of our lives, we wake up thinking about the schedule for that day! Uhmm, clean the house, collect the laundry, attend some meetings, take the children to the birthday party…  Some God-believing people might add prayer to the top of this list. Our lives are hectic, and we have very well managed to accustom ourselves to this lifestyle.

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Failure to understand feelings

Why don’t we ever wake up and think about the things that we do not consider a priority? The feel-good stuff never finds a place in our over-packed routine. “Today, I am going to cook my family’s favorite meal and show my love for them.” Or maybe, ” I am going to visit my old lonely parents in the beautiful home that I grew up in.” What about, “Today, I am going to spread some joy by giving away something that belongs to me to someone in need?”

Why don’t we wake up thinking, “Today, whatever I do or say will be with LOVE!”

The problem is, we humans are now so used to receiving things that we forget to give. We always hope for someone else to make the first move towards a loving gesture and then respond accordingly. That is not love; that’s being competitive, that’s being immature. Many a time, we behave stubbornly and expect Love from places and people who might not have anything to give. In that negative force, we tend to miss out on it that some people may want to give. It comes in the most unexpected and subtle ways, but there is this blissful feeling written for everyone in many forms, and there is also a lot stored inside us to give to others.

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To Love, is to Give

It is so amazing that this is one of those blissful feelings in the world that has no limit. The more you want to give, the more you can get. The more you receive, the luckier you are. And if you are so fortunate, chose to share it with those who lack that feeling. Distribute it with the ones who have never encountered goodness, kindness, and benevolence.

Haven’t our elders since forever taught us how to be kind and giving? Well then, it is in at an age when we feel most grown-up that we need to implement this act of kindness. You know, many times, what we give could be such a small thing for us. But the receiver might find a world of happiness with it. If that happiness brings a smile to your face, then trust us, you are a child of God.

Even animals feel Love towards their caretakers, and some of them express it much better than us humans. But we shouldn’t forget that we have a gift that even they do not have. We can manifest our feelings in unimaginable ways. We should pledge to win the world with this power because what Love can do, nothing else can.

Neighbors, parents, children, teachers, students, grandparents, wife, husband, sister, brother, lovers… there are so many relations we live with every day. We believe that each of these relationships can be a healthy one if and only we handle them with Love. Open your hearts and eyes to love, and you will feel more energetic than ever!

Click here to read one of the best Love Poems by John Keats.

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Hemali Adhiya

Hemali Adhiya is the co-founder and author of the e-magazine Love Smitten. Alongside writing and editing for several other websites, she hosts a YouTube Channel- Total Angrezi. Traveling is her way to unwind, and she loves recording these experiences!

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  1. You have nicely defined love here.. Incredible writing… Hoping for some more insight on this topic.

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